Firstly, welcome to PC, Girl. (I don't fancy saying your full username, sorry)
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A normal person would forgive such things and move on right!?
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My honest opinion on this is, no, a "normal" person probably wouldn't just magically forgive. If he actually cheated on you for a week, staying with his ex wife, while still "with" you, I'd say that's a
huge no-no! If I were in your shoes, I'd certainly neither trust nor forgive him, but that's just me, and I don't know him at all.
I really, honestly just think you need some serious support, ... counseling, therapy, support group(s)... something, because it's not fair to go through all that alone. Thankfully, you have us at PC, so that's at least something, I hope! There are likely plenty of people here who can share at least some of your experiences, and maybe share some advice.
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In fact, there is such a thing as "post-partum" depression.
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That also crossed my mind.
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if a man will cheat on one wife, then he is more likely to cheat on another.
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Unfortunately, that is also how I think. :|
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I have a 6 year old son who is satan himself. He's mean, and vulgar, he's violent and absolutely lazy.
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From what I've learned, kids are very, very receptive and pick up on how their parents feel/act. Your son is maybe acting out based on any animosity that may be picking up in the house (between you and his father, for example) or may be acting out because he doesn't understand how you are.
Stay safe.
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