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Originally Posted by namastewoman
Okay, here is the deal. I have gained over 100 pounds since I started taking antidepressants and now guys are not as into me. When I was skinny, I dated all body types - short, tall, fat, skinny, ugly, cute, etc. NOW, when I could really use a date and some fun, guys are not giving me the double take anymore. How do I get the attention of men to let them know I want to date? I am still the same cute girl, just heavier. I am trying to lose the weight but prefer not be lonely until I weigh 130 again. It took several years to get my weight this high and I am assuming it will take several years to get it back off. In the meantime, any tips on finding guys who do not mind dating larger women?
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It's not a matter of letting men know that you want to date, you can do that just as easily as you did before. I suppose it's likely or possible that men do not find you as attractive anymore now that you have put on a deal of weight.
If you are into online dating you can probably search for males who are looking for a particular weight range, and then contact them.