I am a big girl and always have been. So was my sister. Our dating lives were night and day. I have never had a problem getting dates and she almost never got asked out. It all comes down to one word: CONFIDENCE. I know I'm big but I also know I'm pretty. I've done plus sized modeling and such. I tried to get my sister into it because she was beautiful but she always felt you couldn't be big and be pretty. I have always been very confident and apparently guys just react to that. I am the first big girl that my husband has ever been with. I asked him once what it was he noticed about me. He said first it was my eyes, hair and smile. Then when he actually got to meet me he said it was how overwhelmingly confident I was and my personality in general.

Just remember you can be beautiful at any size. Have confidence in yourself and people will just seem to gravitate to you. It really does happen. Good luck.