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Originally Posted by Raindropvampire
It all comes down to one word: CONFIDENCE. I know I'm big but I also know I'm pretty. I've done plus sized modeling and such. ...Have confidence in yourself and people will just seem to gravitate to you. It really does happen. Good luck.
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I have been "svelt" and "head-turningly-thin" [literal description someone said], and also over 100 pounds heavier than that.
When I was the super thin and lean and OMG turning heads, wearing a little black dress me... I really didn't think much of myself at that point. I wasn't really thinking much of anything, actually. I had very little confidence in myself, I actually wondered why people were looking at me a lot.
100 pounds later, I somehow got myself back, I'm seriously obese, but the tables have completely flipped. It's like I'm way more attractive than I have ever been in my entire life?
It's kind of cause I am pretty sure I'm cute and fun and pretty awesome. I think i just present myself differently in how I face the world. I don't actually assume that a person should be less attracted to me because my butt is bigger or something. I might assume they may be slightly less attracted because my mouth is rather big and I don't shut up half the time, but physically... if they aren't into me, they just aren't. Chemistry is made up of a whole lot of things. To be honest, i have been attracted to people and been completely taken by surprise.
Where was i going with this?
Oh right. Assume you have something to bring to the table- because you do. Don't let something like a dress size hold you back- it shouldn't.