The thing is if we spend our lives comparing ourselves to others.....we will never have any kind of life. Everyone has issues ...we envy others (which is useless) and sometimes the ones who seem to have it altogether. don't...we don't know what is going on in anyone else's life; it might look......like they have a great life; don't be fooled by outward appearances. Do the things that make you happy and don't feel as if you have to justify yourself or.....what you are doing.