yes, I dont need her , at least I dont have the urgency of needing her like I did with my old t, but I fear that feeling, but then again, its a good comfortable feeling to have someone there for you. I know its scary, but I think you just have to let it take its course, like a stomach bug or something, sorry i love to use analogies, im thinking Im gonna start needing my t alot sooner than i thought, so i will be relying on your oppinion.