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Also, I don't see either person being selfish or unreasonable here but that they are facing a new phase in their relationship and it's changing. It's inevitable that it's going to change and it's scary for the OP, which is understandable. both the pregnant friend and the OP are dealing with stress from various things and it's affecting their relationship. I don't see ither of them being inherently wrong or bad in the relationship.
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Exactly. Friendships change and sometimes they don't last forever. I see this situation as just a phase in the course of the relationship. Both the poster and the friend have their own personal things they are dealing with and both are having problems empathizing with the other.
The important thing is not to hold grudges and try to be forgiving of each other when things are said or feelings are hurt because of stresses and changes.