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Originally Posted by aggrevatedwithit
she still has sex with me but typically only when she's drunk,....we are going to try for another child which I believe is the only reason that she is having sex with me at all at this point is bc she wants know another baby. And there haven't been any incidents that should have triggered any type of regression
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I agree with gayle on all counts, and although you think nothing has triggered a regression, it is obvious, with your comments that 'everything' is your fault now, and you can't talk to her, that SOMETHING has triggered her. Hopefully counselling will help and yes, couples counselling might help even more.
According to you she only has sex with you when she's drunk?? That is a red flag that something is triggering her.
As far as having another baby, I strongly urge you to rethink it. It would be a crime to bring a new child into the dynamic you describe, and although she might think it will help, you know, and her T probably knows that's a mistake...not to mention an awful reason to want a child. If you are afraid of the argument that will ensue if you tell her you don't think another baby at this time is a good idea (and odds are, you'll get one) then do it with a counsellor, who can help her understand WHY it's not a good idea.
Take care, and good luck
