my T took me to lunch and paid for it. sometimes i eat lunch with him on campus. but we have a special relationship because im in a residential treatment program. we were celebrating my graduation to the next level when he took me to lunch. and it was with my recovery coordinator as well. i dont really know what to say to you. my Ts boundaries are pretty blurred because of the situation im in. he is able to offer me a lot more than a normal T with a private practice would