Hello Restin,

This article here talks about transference http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/...e-transference

I don't feel the leaving part of the article is necessarily true but the reason why I have given you this link is so you can see that transference really is ok (both positive and negative transference.) It's now time for you to start talking about it with your T. Your 'parent' has control of the child part but that is not what it is all about and if not careful you could start controlling too much. So, take the bull by the horns and tell your therapist what is really going on! You are making good progress.