Hello John: I'm sorry to hear of your break-up. I'm 65 and although I have not had this happen to me, I can imagine what it must be like at our age. There are many fine people on PsychCentral. I'm sure you'll find much comfort here. Keep in mind that the more you post, & reply to others' posts, the more you'll get out of the time you spend here.

There is a social group for us older folks you might look into and also a men's forum which may be of interest. Best wishes!