today the school phoned us to talk about our youngest daughter, apparantly she has been self harming herself, daughter does not know we have been told, she is a very outgoing girl, and will be 14 in sep this spate of self harming wasnt any thing more than scratches, woman that phoned said her job is to counsel the pupils if they have a problem, and will be seeing daughter once a week for time being to keep an eye on her.

while on the phone i gave this woman brief a brief histroy whats been going on around daughter and explained hubbys and my mental heath problems tha have been happing over the last couple of years and explained that she is youngest of four children two with problems,
the advice i want is what do we do now as parents