Honestly, I think that he has told you how he feels but you do not want to listen. If a guy is into you and wants to be with you, he will chase you. He will not do this wishy-washy stuff. Yes, he is giving certain signs that he likes you, but he is also giving signs that he isn't all that into you. Breaking dates? I just had a guy cancel/reschedule on me three days in a row, with the third time being a full out cancellation. I told him ok, I will back off, I understand. He blows up at me for being "negative" and says this is the last time he will put up with such negativity. I say good riddance....ok, not really, I wished him well and said goodbye. Honestly, if he wanted to be with me, he wouldn't be a serial date canceller with no explanation and then blame the whole thing on me. But back to you.... Even shy guys, in my experience, find a way to show the girl that he likes her. (Yeah, I always, and I do mean ALWAYS get the shy guys, LOL) If he's blowing you off and telling you he doesn't want to be with one person right now or date, then I think you should listen to him. (Not being rude, but I think you want to ignore this perhaps?)