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Originally Posted by Secretum
Waiting, I have wondered sometimes if he is gay, especially since the girl that wanted him in January was very attractive. I can understand why he wouldn't want me, but I can't understand why, from a physical standpoint, he wouldn't want her, lol.
He has never told me that he is gay, and he seems pretty straight. He is very masculine, comments on how attractive certain female celebrities are, and makes comments about how much he enjoys looking at Victoria's Secret models. It is, of course, entirely possible that he is trying hard to "act straight" so that nobody suspects. I think if he were gay that he could feel like he could come to me to talk about it; I am very liberal politically, and am bisexual myself. But I can't be sure that he would...
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Yes, and I agree..to a point. But you have to understand, there were SEVERAL guys in my school who were gay...some very flamboyantly so which says a lot for the times I was living in. My friends and I all knew them...it was fine. No issues. The fact is, I SHOULD have realized...and btw, he too could name all sorts of actresses and singers that he thought were beautiful/talented etc....my point, and I do have one--LOL-- is I could see it in all the other guys, but in him, because I had a crush on him...it totally went over my head. Which is why it flummoxed him I didn't know...and embarrassed me because I should have.
That said, he may be totally straight or bi...who knows unless you actually ask him...but in any case, I tend to agree with the last poster before me. It sounds like he's just not that into you. His reasons are his. If he shares them, swell....if he doesn't...well.....just keep care of your heart. I'd hate for you to get hurt over a lovely fantasy that only you understand, and he hasn't a clue.
p.s. Gay men come in all shapes, sizes and colors. And sometimes even gay men don't see it. Sometimes. hehe