Quote from skies, "About sexual feelings for T and hugs in general --
I'd be mortified if my therapists didn't hug me just because I had sexual feelings for them (and was honest about it). It would probably be damaging to our relationship."

I would have been absolutely devastated if my Therapist treated me like that—rejecting me for what I was feeling. I know I would have been suicidal.

My parents still treat me that way, accept me when I express feelings they like, and reject me when they don't like the feelings I am expressing. I can accept it in them now, because of excellent therapy where I Was NEVER REJECTED FOR ANYTHING I EXPRESSED! I receive total acceptance no matter what.

Thanks skies.