Hi there, Froggie --

When I was a young woman, I worked for a much older woman. A coworker, who has remained a friend for 30-odd years, was at that time engaged -- but couldn't get the son of a Greek tycoon out of her heart. And of course, he would pop up and express renewed interest and get her stirred up again.

Mrs. S told a little story about "the one" she hadn't married and had never forgotten -- this is after her children are grown, her husband is dead, and grandchildren have arrived. Mrs. S said there is one in every woman's life.

Treasure the memory and move on.