Ha!! Thanks, Hankster--she is a "work friend" meaning not a very close one.
At the time she was talking about a guy she dated, not me.

I'm sure some of this comes out of her own insecurity--she has always been gorgeous but faces the likely prospect of what age will do to her. Pretty people have no idea what life is like for the rest of us.

She said other depressing things too--that guys in their 40's and 50's want women in their 20's and 30's. A lot of what she said sounded like cliches yet I still find it depressing.

It is hard to shake the feeling that I don't belong anywhere.