A whole day for me with my T, would probably mean: having breakfast together, showing him my house, looking at photos, doing therapy outdoors, going for a long drive by the sea, finding a peaceful spot and having a pic-nic (some bread, cheese, fruit, chocolate, and a little bit of wine). Or cooking together! Then in the evening, we would go to the opera and afterwards we'd walk for a while in the empty streets, unwinding, and part with a hug (never given me one).
I'd love to go to a trip with him (or, at least, I love to imagine going!), but only after our therapy would be over. If we went someplace in Europe, I'd love to visit with him a small Greek island named Kastelorizo and it's famous Blue Cave (google it!), or Lisbon, or even take the Trans-Siberian Railway trip together! I'd love to have therapy while traveling by train and watching the scenery..
Would you share your fantasy with your T?
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