I care. You are a worthwhile person and your thoughts, feelings, and needs should be respected. Name calling and threats of violence are not love, and since it sounds like you want a man who can treat you thoughtfully and kindly--which is what you deserve, then I think you might want to consider finding a new boyfriend. If this is your apartment, box up his things and change the lock.
If it is his, then start looking for a nicer, safer place to stay.

Emotional abuse is every bit as harmful as physical abuse. You are welcome to come here and find support for your feelings.