Aspies can be very chaotic, forgetful people - I am, for one! With the diagnosis now being all under the ASD banner it can be trickier for aspies, as we don't have a lot of classic autism traits at all, and are often very good at 'covering' traits after years of practice. I think the most important thing is understanding yourself how things are with you. Welcome by the way, this forum is not thankfully cursed with the kind of gang warfare you get on some others on this subject!