There are actually 2 ladies who were open about it, although I believe they are both current industry workers, but neither posted in this forum (relationships as well as BPD & BP) but I don't know just how active they are on these boards, (the 1 lady hasn't posted in quite a while) although the other in the relationships forum made a few very recent posts.

Maybe they've decided to lurk more than post? Idk their profiles are still active...

Sooo while I don't understand your plight, I wanted you to know you're not the only one who's been open about working in the industry.

I too am hoping someone will PM you if they feel uncomfortable posting.