For me a big thing to enable me to work is to be part time. I have tried to work full time a couple of times and always end up in a huge episode because of the stress. There are some challenges that come with only working part time (mainly money, but benefits also).

I also have to be open with my boss so that way I can get accommodations as needed. Right now I am working 24 hours a week and every once and a while I will pick up an extra shift if I feel that I can, which with my bosses permission just requires me to phone her and she will write me in. This has been very good for me.

I also don't do well with being told what to do, but what I find works well for me is just to get a list of all things I have to do and then create my own work order out of them. I tend to get more done by doing this.