I know this sounds dumb, but I think of how often people look happy and put together and feel like an outcast. And seeing how we all think our wise and saintly pdocs don't exactly have perfect lives (lol)....reminds me how often he tells me that everyone has problems and usually have false façades and I shouldn't assume they are all happy and self-actualized or something....
Just a weird observation....I've really enjoyed reading all your posts!
WB