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Juliana said:
I don't think you're making a mountain out of a molehill. What he said to you was a very low blow. That says a lot about the kind of friend he is capable of being. It's obvious that he's willing to hone in on what he thinks is your "weak" spot and try to hurt you when he gets upset. That's not okay.
I'm all for forgiveness. I have forgiven many people for many things. I don't forget, though. People who make a point of trying to hurt me don't get a chance to do it again.
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as usual you make sense of things

thank you.
i know his sore spots ... like it has taken him way too long to finish his college degree ... i couldn't bring myself to say something crappy to him about that though ... which would prolly affect him in the same way.
ah well maybe i will just get over it and be careful in what i tell him in future...