Basically when I told T there is a possibility of me being a lesbian, she said if I was just choosing that because it was safer to be with a woman than a man. Ive never thought about if it was "safe" or "not safe" I just thought if I can look at a woman and be sexually attracted to her, well I am probably gay. But I cant say for sure because ive never been in an intimate relationship with a woman. So maybe I am choosing safety, but how do I know its safer if ive never had sex with both male or female?