Thread: Sexuality Issue
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Old Jun 01, 2014, 08:34 PM
Anonymous100305
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Hello Problems12: I don't know if I have much of anything in the way of great wisdom to offer here. From my perspective you're just still very young & trying to figure out where you're most comfortable on the sexuality scale. At the two ends of the scale are male & female. But there's lots of room in between too. Many people are attracted to both sexes. Some are sexually attracted to none. There are lots of different ways that these factors can combine. I think the important thing here is not to worry about it. Just let things settle out over time as they will. Resist the urge to stuff yourself into some pre-fab box created by the society around you.

As far as not being attracted enough to people to be able to have sex with strangers, that's perfectly fine! There's no need to do so. And actually this is a good thing in that you're less likely to get into some unsafe situation.

It may be that you simply haven't met anyone yet who really turns you on! And that's fine too. So I'd say you're doing just fine. Just try not to get worked up over it. It's the apprehension & misguided efforts to conform to some pre-determined standard that are the only potential problems here.