For three years, I belonged to a bipolar support group until I moved away. Within that group, no one would openly admit their illness because of fear of discrimination. I got tired of arguing that we must be candid if we are to educate others. No one would ever agree with me - and I was very frustrated.

Currently, I tell those who have "a need to know." And when I do, I offer them as much or as little information as they like. Some just like to "cut to the chase," while others "want the big picture." I'm not pushy, but I let them know that I'm open to questions.

But Be Advised - there are some people who will dislike/hate you no matter how candid you are. If you can identify the type in advance, don't tell them anything - ever.