My t wrote a book about her growing up. I found that out when I was "researching" her before I chose her. Ordered it, just got it, reading it, enjoying it. Guess her life was "an open book." But really, I don't see T's, in general, of having any different of a life than the average life. I'm sure there are good times, with some speed bumps along the way....much like most anyone else. But for some of us, there are more speed bumps than good times. And that's why we have a T