I am 33 and I have fallen in Love with this girl whose 30 divorced from a disastrous marriage that lasted 1 year but she has effectively stayed with her husband only for 6 months, this was her first relationship ever and whatever happened it was not her faullt and i know the entire story in detail, she was cheated and deserves a much better life and hence she walked out of the marriage seeking a better life partner.

They had a very brief sexual relationship cause the relationship was plagued with disappointment and no mutual respect since the man was living on her earnings.

She is an amazing woman and I respect her for what shes achieved, she comes from a very reputed family and is a clear heart person.

I have been seeing her for a year now and everything about her is good however because I am clinically diagnosed as OCD i have this mental block fueled by society that a divorcee and a non virgin is not a good idea.

I am quite open minded and it never struck me before but because i love her so much the thot of exclusivity is bothering me.

I wish to overcome this irrational continous bombardment of negative thoughts and totally forget her past so that i can give a meaning to this relationshipand get married to her without a mental block.

Is divorce and Virgnity such a big deal? Does that make her an Impure Soul?

i have had several relationships and sexual partners in the past and Im not a virgin myself, where as she had only 1 sexual relationship which was marriage that did not last long.

I would really appreciate guidance on the above.