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Old Jun 02, 2014, 07:48 AM
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Originally Posted by PianogirlPlays View Post
Just did send her the most reassuring letters ever written. She twisted everything and just kept on aiming at me. I have an appointment tomorrow to get some help..I am hurt, angry and suffering. She has done this before and I have now come to the understanding that in her pain I have become her outlet. Trouble is in my own situation I can't seem to deal with it much anymore.
Getting help!!! So happy for you. An objective other can be so helpful as you go through all this.
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