Check out the website for Sex Addicts Anonymous and see if there are in meetings in Australia, if not they also have onling meetings. It's a great group of people fighting what you are. It's a 12-step based program and really helps a lot of people with sex addiction. It can be done. You can over come it. Even though it will be a lifelong battle. Seeing a counselor that understands sex addiction would be a good idea, too. I've been there. The longer you continue with less self-esteem you will have. I hope you can find some help and encouragement from my post.