I see the shadows!!! Agree that we need these type of forums to see how much we relate to one another (not knowing how much of a good thing that is)lol. Hopefully one day our minds will be at ease while we still walk the earth. I myself am so tired of the BS!! My best recommendation is to not try to make people understand "us". It's like asking your dog to drive you to the store. The way we see they cannot, the way they see we haven't tried to care about. We are so great at creating the paths for others minds to see how we want. In fact to make others feel as if we really care about them. We do this as a tactic to build out horse higher and higher each time. How can they understand these motives as a normal thinker and one who has compassion? Anyway I fully understand!!!!