I know... there are a million variations, a million sites. Something for everyone. I'm just not ... sure I want to "stoop to that"

ok, who are we really kidding -- the real truth is, I still feel woefully inadequate. What woman in her right mind would want to get involved with a mess like me? That's what runs through my mind, whenever I think of dating.

At least, my goal is to get to place where "a mess like me" no longer applies. At least I have a goal.