Hello Altered State.
You know that I care very much for your situation and since you are not getting the answer you are seeking at ths time, I will give you the answer I believe is the Most Important Answer to your question. Anytime you take people and try to make people conform to one Unity, then you will have issues and intolerances, so therefore the Most Important Answer to any question such as this is : To Keep yourself and your mental health SAFE, and TRY NOT to worry about things that can harm you in some way either emotionally, Physically, or mentally and let the Administrators and Moderators do Their Job, and not try to get the answers you dont want to hear anyway, that may do more harm in the long run not just to you Altered, but to the others at Psych Central as well. Sometimes the most important lesson in life is letting someone else take care of things and keep ourselves safe emotionally, physically, and mentally. Sincerity to you always Altered. take care and good day. Soidhonia