Inky,
What a mess! I feel so badly for you. No one should have to go through so much and all at once.
My heart truly bleeds for you...
Please try to make it to court. It is so important that you show up! I wish I could be there beside you for support, but alas, I am only on a screen!
I don't know if there is anything I could say to make you feel better, but do know that you are in my heart, my thoughts and my prayers.
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