And for all of you who think its the Ts fault, its mine. I value my T and what she says. So what if she has only practiced for 3 years? 25 or 3, each client is different, each one posses a new challenge and new ways of dealing with each person. There is no, my T is better than yours. Its who your most compatible with and who really helps you. My T helps me, at the same time challenges me and makes me think! She cares for my well being and my safety. So what if T is wrong on this? Im sure every T is wrong every day. That's the disadvantage of humans, getting therapy from humans.