Well everyone is going to be selfish here and there, but there are limits. I don't think masturbation or sexual thoughts are selfish, that wasn't my point at all. Humans are flawed so we're not expected to all do things selflessly, but it doesn't mean people aren't selfish.

Plus not everyone fantasizes whilst masturbating, but it doesn't mean they are selfish.

I honestly think there should be better sex educators, because schools teach all kinds of bollocks about sex and puberty. All I learnt in sex ed was puberty (well just about periods and erections, that was all), parts of genitalia and the stages of pregnancy and giving birth. There was NOTHING about safe-sex or anything else.

I think, if you want to live your sex life the way your religion does it - fine - but to shame others for doing it different than you, whether it's self-pleasure or anything else, it's just not okay to judge others - not everyone follows religion the same (or not at all), we all have our points of views, morals and beliefs but we should all respect the ones who differ from us no matter what it is, as long as it's not hurting anybody or effecting anybody - it's totally okay.

This is why I say why hate the LGBT community? They aren't effecting anybody, and if you are butthurt over two men or two women kissing, or a man dressing like a woman or woman dressing like a man or someone who likes both genders or all genders - then you seriously need to think it over - is it PHYSICALLY hurting you? No. Is it any of your business that these people differ from you? No.

It would've been more appropriate to just copy and paste the lyrics of Why Can't We Be Friends into my thread in the first place.