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Old Jun 03, 2014, 01:20 AM
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Originally Posted by MotownJohnny View Post
I know... there are a million variations, a million sites. Something for everyone. I'm just not ... sure I want to "stoop to that"

ok, who are we really kidding -- the real truth is, I still feel woefully inadequate. What woman in her right mind would want to get involved with a mess like me? That's what runs through my mind, whenever I think of dating.

At least, my goal is to get to place where "a mess like me" no longer applies. At least I have a goal.

I can only speak from my own experience, and not judge something that works nicely for others. I won't call dating sites names, but I will say this.....they were not my cup of tea, or coffee for that matter!! I hated it, very quickly. I found meet-up a much better way of making friends, because I actually realised that I wasn't after a partner right then.....I just needed friends.

Oh my....the stories I could tell!

And Johnny, "a mess like me"?........ I think Dr Seuss had it right....

We are all a little weird and
Life's a little weird,
And when we find someone whose
Weirdness is compatible with ours,
We join up with them and fall in
Mutual weirdness and call it Love.


go find yours.....