I have trouble trusting others, especially my husband. We have a big problem with him following through with out me nagging. I hate to nag and I hate the atttitude I get when I ask him to do things. I also get really frustrated when he doesn't follow through on tasks he often volunteers to take care of. Needless to say this doesn't help my trust issue. I have over and over again emphasized the importance of him following through with tasks to earn my tasks. We always end up in the same place. This week we have had issues with him following through. I called the therapist today to set up an appt, but they are on vacation I think. Our next appt isn't until the 17th. I am thinking of "declaring independence" I want to start taking care of me and just me like he does. Why should I follow through with his demands and his needs when he doesn't do the same for me? I am seriously thinking about this because I am sick of trying to depend on him. I will take care of my meals, my laundry, my pets and my messes. Thats it! I wanted to run this passed my therapists. I have a feeling they won't agree. What do you guys think. Also, I have just begun meds. I am wondering if these feelings are a sign that I need an increase. Any thoughts?

Thanks in advance!

Meachie