Mine has a couch, and two chairs. He always lets me sit first, and for some reason I have always chosen one of the chairs, the left one. And then he always gets the couch. So many times I have been tempted to just sit on the couch and let him have one of the two chairs. Why can't I have the comfortable spot?? But I feel like in doing that, especially next session, may be viewed as some form of me "acting out." Maybe another time would be better, haha. Only once has he ever came and sat on the other chair to my right, next to me. He was drawing something and had to show it to me. Otherwise, he stays right there on the couch, and me on that stupid chair.
It makes me wonder what other clients pick. And oddly enough, "my" chair is never warm when I come in. I dunno. People like routine, including me. I feel like I would really mess up the dynamic if I chose his precious couch to sit on. :P
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