Thank you gloria for your reply, I appreciate it.
As my aunt was losing her memory for several years he would say very hurtful things to her that I would address with him. He tried to be nice to me when I was with her, but now I question his niceness, and think he was doing this to save face. The more I look back on all of this I want to cry. I think he was taking advantage of her. He would never let my aunt and I be alone, he'd stay on the phone when we would have conversations, I would politely ask him for some privacy, and he would not let us go out alone together either. Everything I did with her, he was always there, and seemed somewhat envious of the bond my aunt and I shared, even though I would tell him sincerely how I supported their relationship. I have gone above and beyond for this man as my family has as well, celebrated all his Birthdays, brought him food when he was sick, I treated him like an Uncle, and my Aunt was so touched by all I would do for both of them, the unconditional love I continually showed. This man will not even call or talk to my aunts family, all of us, and says he doesn't want to bother and totally disrespects the love my aunt had for me and my family and our incredible love for her.
He has not even offered me so much as my own sweatsuit back that I had her wear in the hospital to keep her warm, and I didn't even ever ask him ever for a single thing. He is treating me as if he never knew me and this my aunt would cry over if she knew, I truly believe she never thought he could be capable of doing this to her family.
As I stated in my previous post, my aunt would give me things and tell me not to tell him, I always wondered why she would say this.
In her will it is stated that her property is to be distributed as per her instructions, no names of anyone mentioned at all! This man that I speak of is her executor, and I am starting to believe that anything that should go to me or my family he will not be respecting my aunts wishes. I am sooooooo very sad about this, my Aunt was like a 2nd mother to me and she means the world to me, how I miss her so so very dearly.