Though I am finding the discussion interesting :-)

I do find it fairly interesting to hear about the things that people find okay for them and not okay for them and some of the reasons why they have come to their views (what diversity there is!)

Like how some people have come to the decision that sex outside marriage is something that is not right for them while others find that okay. Like how some people have come to the decision that sex outside the context of a serious relationship is not okay while others find that okay. Etc etc.

I think it would be terrific if this forum could be used to explore some of these different ideas that people have so people can reflect on their own views. Particularly great if the conversation does indeed stay focused on what people find okay and not okay for them personally rather than their views on the activities of others.