I'm actually more dismayed than relieved. This role of "cheerleader" (as Pat has labeled it accuratly) has been my profile in many relationships, getting me nothing but grief!
LMO responded to someone, I can't remember who it was, about letting someone earn your trust and commitment, and, I have to admit, I've never done that...always diving in to give, give, give and regretting it!
The presence here on PC has been beneficial for many reasons, but in this present situation, primarily so, for keeping me conscious and aware of my weaknesses and foibles in the past.
Patty