Okay so I have this friend at my school that has been pulling away I think and I think may be revealing that she never was a true friend. She constantly ignored me in group settings, and apparently she did it to others as well but didn't realize it. She constantly asked me for money so she can get food or ask to eat my food and even started eating some of it without my permission a couple times. He also has the tendency to just randomly leave without warning. Like we can all be sitting there and she just gets up and leaves or if it's one on one I may go use the restroom and when I come back she is gone. She is also judgemental and hypocritical. She does not like it when she hears about people having sex but then she goes on dating sites and sends nude photos of herself to someone or a couple people, one of them turning out to be a creep. And even though she doesn't say it, I can tell when she doesn't want to hang out because she will ignore all texts about it. For example, I'm supposed to meet her tomorrow at school so we can go hang out and she agreed a few days ago but now if I ask her if we are still on or what time she'll be there she will ignore it. But I'll send her a completely different text and she'll reply to that one. She has trouble being honest. Also if she is mad, she admitted that she doesn't tell the person directly. She either talks bad about that person or talks to them through text, or both. And now that it's summer, she just texts less and less and we are supposed to go to Kennywood as a group but she won't go unless someone from her high school goes. She did invite a complete stranger but he bailed out. So I feel like she is trying to pull away and is showing her true colors, especially since she is not returning to the school as a student due to academic suspension. Me and a few other people noticed and believe she never was a true friend. Also she is more than willing to drive 2 hours to go visit a friend at her old college but not 45 min. to an hour to visit any of us at home. Also she admitted to liking her old school better which is okay, that happens. Just think this whole time she never was a true friend and now she is really showing her true colors. She thinks it's okay for her to be blunt but when other people are honest to her, she gets really mad. Do you think I'm overreacting or no?
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