Thank you, that was very sweet. I am trying to be there for him however he needs me to but it's getting harder as this gets more painful. I lose my compassion when he's causing me pain I can't understand. Trying though. It's hard to be selfless in the way you suggest when I'm lonely and sad as it is. He did mention he's felt very lonely through all these issues which makes me wonder if I misread what I thought was him telling me to leave him alone.

We've talked about me moving with him before. He's always known he'd get offered a job elsewhere sooner or later, he just thought it would be later. Recently though, since he's heard of this job, he hasn't asked me. It's on my list of "follow-up" questions to ask when we have another talk. Whether he even wants me to go anymore.

I believe he takes fish oil anyway. I'll suggest it if he's still having problems.