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Old Jun 04, 2014, 01:29 AM
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Made an appointment for a consult with a new T tomorrow afternoon. I'm a little nervous and it's been awhile so I don't know what to expect. Actually, I've never done a consult before and don't even know why I asked for that but he scheduled me for one. I guess it's where you see if you can both potentially work together and arrange fees and such?
I hope he is not the slightest bit good looking because I had transference issues WAY bad with my last male T. And they never got worked out, and my last T basically bailed and didn't even say goodbye. Just told me I should talk to someone else... So now, finally 4 months later, I'm going to take the plunge and do it.
I will probably want to mention what happened with my last T at some point, but at the same time, I don't want the whole of the session to be spent talking about my ex-t... Hmmm.. Any ideas about how to approach that topic, or if I should even bring it up at all? Or anyone have advice about first meeting with a new T?
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