Am I understanding this right? So she says basically she's open to seeing you again IF you work with another T first and demonstrate you understand something about how you act in relationships. She suggests a T for this and/or a group. But... you are going to write her back and essentially say, I totally reject your idea of gaining this understanding first however I am going to ignore that you said that and I will be scheduling an appointment with you regardless.?! I don't expect you will like her reply, if I am correct about this exchange. She seems to imply you have a problem with powerful women. I'm a powerful woman, and if this exchange happened for me I would not want to bother seeing you, not out of anger but because it would seem like you are impossible to reach with this position of thinking you know more or have a better understanding than your T from the outset. If her suggestions are wrong, and you know more than her to begin with, how can she possibly help you?