I guess it depends on where you are (rural/vs urban/suburban). While it's still mostly women, the numbers in my area mean that there are some men listed in the directory. But, I can understand why you would want that. I work with a woman, that is fine for most things, but several times, she has wanted me to discuss my sex life (or lack thereof, alas), and I told her I just wasn't comfortable being graphic with her, I would only speak in very vague terms, such as "I think I'm pretty normal". If I had a specific sexual issue I wanted to discuss, I would definitely go see a guy about that.