No, he does not seem happy when I tell him about my childhood - what I talk about is minor things, like being slapped and treated with a couple of days days of total silence by my dad when I was 4 years old and had said the wrong thing. So really nothing that could be thought of as abusive. But T is very clear on the fact that he thinks my parents did not treat me well, and he has even said that he disagrees with me about it being all my own fault. But he doesn't convey feelings of personal sadness or anger.

I had a happy childhood, I just didn't manage to be happy.

Although it is true that when I mention positive things that happen to me now or positive things that I do for myself, T does seem happy about it. Which is really nice.