(( pegasus ))

You will get there! You are heading that direction now and you keep getting closer the more you talk and understand so you can accept and let go. There isn't any other way.

So 'there' is also right now... and right now you are on the way, on the road. You are learning. You can't be there til you get there.

I like how your T defines it though. It's a way of living that is calm and peaceful, which is why we are seeking it, right?